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The Difference a Smile Makes…It Can Even Change Hearts

Have you ever noticed what a difference a smile makes? It’s contagious. When someone smiles at you, you smile right back. It changes your mood. It can even change your day.

The Impact of a Smile

My wife (Cyndi) and I have been active members of the greeter ministry at our Parish for the last 3 years. As such, we along with a team of others, stand at the various doors of the Church, greeting people warmly as they come in. Not only do we smile and wave, but very often shake hands and exchange pleasantries. Above all, we make them feel welcome.

With many at the 5PM Mass being regulars, we’ve gotten to know them and those they often attend with. I don’t think it’s a stretch to say that in some cases friendships have been formed. 

We also say good-bye to them as they leave, wishing them a good week and often including a “God bless you!” Regardless of what time they arrive or leave, late or early, they get the same positive, enthusiastic greeting from us, all part of our efforts (with other things) to attract people to our Parish.

It’s working. Several families have registered at the Parish, many of whom tell us that it’s solely because of how friendly we are. As such, they get to join our Parishioners in experiencing Jesus and being transformed.

Changing Hearts Too

Not only is it changing the hearts of our Parishioners and newcomers, but ours’ as well. You see, Cyndi and I have noticed something going on within us. Whereas we used to judge those who would show up late and leave early (or do other things strange to us during the Mass), now we are just really happy to see them.

The judgement has left us. The cross-eyed stares are gone. We could care less when they get there or how long they stay, as we are genuinely grateful that they come to participate in our Liturgy.

Why the Change in Us?

I think it’s a few things:

  1. It’s the specific work we’re doing for the Church, knowing that we are called to be Jesus to our Parishioners and Guests
  2. Friendships are being created. As opposed to them just being people in the pews, we are engaging with individuals and families, really getting to know them. We genuinely like them.
  3. A smile goes a long way; numerous smiles go even further

Our Pastor speaks highly of the culture of hospitality that’s been created, which is in great contrast to the way it used to be. Interestingly, we also are not the way we used to be. We’re a lot less judgmental, outside of Church too. Something about those smiles…and knowing the love of Christ…what an unbeatable combination. 

What You Can Do

So here’s what I’d suggest if you want to soften your heart and experience greater joy. First, see Christ in all and be Christ to all. Second, make friends. Be nice to them and pray for them. Lastly, smile because there’s nothing like it. You do these three things, inside or outside of Church, and you’ll be happier and healthier.

Please feel free to share your comments with me at Mark@MarkJosephMinistries.com.

God Bless you on your journey to Peace, Joy, and Fulfillment!!!

Mark Joseph